I'm single, not desperate

Sometimes I think there's a misconception out there that if you're "older", single, and not model gorgeous you need to be okay - no, more than ok - excited when any guy is interested in you. It doesn't matter how you feel about the guy. If he's interested in you, you need to go for it, because who knows when another guy will come around. 

While I think we single people need to be practical and realize no one out there is perfect (besides us of course) that in no way means we have to settle. 

Should we give people chances who we may not be super excited about initially? Unless they're sketchy, I say yes. Should we force ourselves to be into someone we don't see/want a real future with? I don't think so. 

So in defense of myself, and any other single people like me out there, I say this... I may be single, but I'm not desperate. 

Would I like to meet a guy to eventually marry and have children with? One hundred percent. Will I have a miserable life if I don't? I don't think so. Single or married, life is what you make it. So for now, I'm going to try to have the most fun (my interpretation of fun) single life I can and hopefully one day have a great married life with someone I am excited to be with and grateful to have found. 

Signing out,

Single & Happy